Sunday, February 12, 2017

Loving Our God-Lover's Quarrel

February 12 2017  Scout Sunday “Loving Our God: Lover’s Quarrel” Deuteronomy 30.15-20 *Matthew 5.21-37 Pastor Hines

It is a wonderful thing to get along with one another. [slide # 1 animals hugging] We love living in peace and having harmony in our home. [slide#2 home] It is a beautiful thing. We want to live well and do what we can to keep the peace because as our Old Testament lesson tells us, our behavior has consequences. We are blessed with the good fruit of our labors when we do good, and we risk trouble all around when we neglect to do good.
Our gospel lesson reminds us of the Ten Commandments. The sixth commandment says “Do not kill.” But Jesus helps us to see that you can even kill someone when you are angry with them, [slide# 3 angry face] when you call them names or insult them or hate them. When we hate on those God has created, God is not pleased. When we pour out our anger like a volcano, insult, and ignore, we are in trouble with God. God calls us into the office, so to speak, and deals with us in a way that only God can.
Just like we may have disagreements [slide# 4 two boys] with our friends and people we do not like, we may have disagreements with God. Because we love God and God loves us, we can think of our disagreements with God as a lover’s quarrel. [slide # 5 couple quarreling ]
We want ice cream, [slide# 6 ice cream] but God urges us to eat the broccoli first. [slide # 7 broccoli]We want to relax in the sunshine, but God urges us to finish our work. We want to be with our friends and those who like us all the time, but God may need us to spend time with someone who’s not on that list. So, we may begin to argue with God in hopes that we can have our way.
Whether we are quarreling with one another or with God, it is important to learn to fight fair. [slide # 8 couple]
Fighting fair requires 5 things. # 1 we can fight fair when we understand that our emotions are very strong and can even get out of control. Emotions can be like fire, [slide #9 toes near fireplace] warming you one minute and burning you the next. [slide # 10 finger near candle] Fighting fair means being very, very careful. Being careless with our emotions is as risky as being careless with fire.
#2 fighting fair means putting our best foot forward.  When we fight it may be tempting to trash each other, [slide#11 trash can] to approach each other with our noses turned up or our backs turned on someone as if he or she is worthless. [slide # 12 backs turned] We may be too proud to act like we need someone. We may let our fear of not being loved control us instead of having faith that God is our ultimate source of love, instead of trusting that God leads us in the paths of righteousness so we can have peace.
#3 fighting fair means planning ahead, practicing to respond in Godly ways. We can roleplay [slide# 13 roleplay] and think with friends and family of a few ways that can work well when our anger is at the boiling point. We can make a note of those ways and write down a sentence prayer asking God to help us whenever a fight or even a disagreement breaks out. [slide# 14 prayer journal]
#4 fighting fair means listening kindly and gently so there is no doubt that everyone knows you care. Gentleness is listed in the bible as one of the nine fruits of the Holy Spirit. There is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, (or generosity) faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. [slide# 15 gentleness]
The only way we can be as gentle as Jesus is to have Jesus in our heart, and the only way to have Jesus in our heart is to stay in the light of his love by doing God’s will, by praying, reading the bible and being with Godly people in worship and fellowship. It takes supernatural power to be gentle and kind. [slide# 16 bear with flower]
Finally, #5 fighting fair means we give God and each other our best, then step aside and let God do the rest. [slide# 17 let go…] We can only do so much. We are only so strong. We are limited, by design. [slide # 18 baby hand in adult hand]

Maybe the hardest part of fighting fair is also the best part, [slide # 19 Snoopy dancing] knowing we cannot do it alone. We need God’s help and we need each other, [slide # 20 two lions] and that is by design. Amen. [Slide # 21 squirrel praising the Lord]

Sunday, February 5, 2017

February 5 2017 Loving God - Loving Secrets

February 5 Souper Bowl Sunday “Loving Our God: Loving Secrets” Isaiah 58.1-9a *I Corinthians 2.1-12  Pastor Jacqueline Hines
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Not long ago there was a radio report [slide #1 radio] that declared in order to have well-behaved children, you had to have very clear expectations. [slide #2 clear expectations…] When we give clear expectations to our children, they will most likely stay on track and do what they are taught to do. When we say one thing and do another, they may do what we do and not what we tell them to do. For the most part when we are clear about what we expect, when they notice that we are not ambivalent, they follow the rules.
The apostle Paul spent years studying God’s word seriously and diligently. He was all about making sure everyone knew God’s rules as well as God’s love. Paul presented clear expectations for God’s children. He taught that behavior has consequences and God guides us every step of the way. [slide # 3 God’s rules] When we fall, God picks us up, [slide # 4 Jesus holding man up] when we soar, [slide# 5 dove soaring] we go to unimaginable heights on the wings of the holiest spirit. When we need comfort, it is always a prayer away. [slide# 6 hugging]
Paul says in verse 2 he did not come preaching mystery or as the CEB version says, the secrets,… but he came demonstrating God’s power.
God’s blessings are as clear as God’s expectations to those who are looking for them. They are real and a powerful presence in our lives. We may wonder where God is. We may not appreciate God’s position behind us pushing us or at arm’s length beyond our reach, but we know God beyond a doubt that God is with us. We can see what non-believers cannot see. The secrets of God’s love are clearest when we love God back.
Whether we are on the mountain heights of stardust and glory or in the valley of many shadows our God is still an awesome God. We can still expect great things. There is a song that says, “It is no secret, what God can do. What he’s done for others, he’ll do for you. With arms wide open, he’ll pardon you. It is no secret what God can do.”
The song was written by Stuart Hamblen, known as a “singing cowboy.” [slide # 7 Stewart Hamblen] He was the son of a Methodist minister from Texas, but when he became a famous singer, the story is told that he didn’t handle his fame very well. He went to jail several times for his drinking and brawling behavior, but when he met Billy Graham, he turned his life around and rumors about his conversion spread like wildfire. Finally, a friend came right out and asked him, “Is it true? Are you a Christian now?” He answered his friend, “It is no secret what God has done for me and God can do it for you, too.” His friend suggested he turn those lines into a song. That friend was John Wayne, and that song rose to number one on the gospel, country, and pop charts and was sung by greats like Mahalia Jackson and Elvis Presley.
Apostle Paul taught that the power of God is not hidden. It is a prayer away. But you do have to love God to experience the depths of God’s powerful love.
Those who have been snorkeling  [slide # 8 snorkeling] or scuba diving [slide # 9 scuba diving] are able to see deep things that cannot be seen from the shore. There are marvels to be seen, colors, and light and movement that we witness when we look deeply and prayerfully into what is before us.
After a loved one slips into eternity’s grey shadows,  still we know that God is with us. It is no secret. God reveals Godself in the darkness. When a dream that we have fought and worked for forever, disappears into ashes and dust, we can see still see God in what the great mystic Howard Thurman calls, the Luminous Darkness. It is no secret. If you seek, you will find because Jesus leads us, calls us where we need to go. He says, “My sheep know my voice.”
In troubling times when light is scarce, let the light within you shine every day. You never know who will find their way back to life because of the light you shine on the path. Light works wonders. Our light is energy like the sun that makes life grow. Our light reveals, like a candle in the dark. Our light transforms like the rainbow glow of a campfire cooking a nourishing meal. Our light comforts like a lantern of welcome in a window for the weary traveler. Our light heals like the infrared light used by doctors. Let your light shine. For it is no secret that we are children of the light.
I have grown to appreciate the spiritual disciplines of the Roman Catholic Church as well as the United Methodist Church and other denominations. I have been strengthened by repeating prayers for years in addition to the Lord’s Prayer. I have been blessed with set times of prayer and fasting, too, but it has become more and more clear that spiritual disciplines give us spiritual power only when we are in the light of God’s love and God’s word.
We need to be in the presence of that spiritual light that is within God’s people in worship so we will have less time for worry and wandering. We need to be in the light of God’s word in reading, radio, television, and bible study in the daytime if we are going to be able to glow in the dark.
Stuart Hamblin did not go on a fast when his life turned around. He met Billy Graham and Billy Graham’s light shone on him and transformed him, gave him a new song for all the world to sing.  Shine your light and the power of God will be revealed. It is no secret what God can do.
Pastor Khan from Royersford UMC told a story of how he and his wife prayed to have a second child. They prayed and prayed and the baby was born, not one or two or three or four…but nine years later. I asked Pastor Khan if he got impatient during those years or was he tempted to stop praying and give up or get mad at God. It amazed me that he said he was very calm and patiently waited on the Lord all those years until the answer came. That son is now in seminary and preaching the gospel like his father. He represents the fifth generation of Christians from Pakistan. That is a good example of God’s power revealed.
You may not want God’s blessings in God’s timing. You may be like me, wanting to know the secret to getting a certain blessing instantly. There are very few blessings that we can have on demand. There is very little in life that we are in charge of. If we just take charge of the little we are in charge of, then we will be more secure and on track. Naturally, at times, we rather remain distracted by anything but our own affairs.
You understand this if you ever watch Cesar Milan, the dog whisperer. Cesar is called in to households where the dog is ruling the house, tearing up shoes, nipping at the neighbors, acting aggressively toward other animals. Cesar reminds dog owners, you need to take charge of your dog and let him or her know that you are the leader of the pack and they will no longer be allowed to frighten or destroy. You need to have that in your mind and in your heart so that the dog will be convinced by your body language and your speech. Taking charge of what we are in charge of is not easy. It is easy to do lots of other things to procrastinate doing what we should do which is taking charge of our own lives and our own responsibilities.
Right now, our Bethel business is to take charge of working well together, to be right with God and to be gentle and respectful and kind toward one another in the midst of several conversations about our future.
From my angle, as your pastor, I hear God speaking through you saying four things: Number one God has given us gifts to use in that beautiful kitchen and as we are using those God-given gifts of hospitality [slide # 10 hospitality sign] and cooking, we need a dishwasher and a few important renovations. We want God’s time with our fellowships to be as beautiful as God helps us to make them. The Trustees have taken care of that call to ministry. God has provided all the skill and the money to answer that prayer. [slide # 11 hospitality team]
Secondly, I hear God speaking through all of you saying we need more accessible restrooms. [slide # 12 restroom sign] There is no doubt about that. We are praying continually and there is no doubt that God will faithfully help us to accomplish that. [slide# 13 If….God will help us]
Thirdly, I hear God speaking clearly through you saying, we need to be responsible stewards and pay off the loan [Slide# 14 man with bill] we have for the elevator and the lobby and not leave that debt for our children to pay, and not abandon it for someone else to pay. This is good because God has entrusted us with great resources and we want to use them wisely and not make a mockery of God’s generosity by neglecting to care. [slide# 15 paid…]
Fourthly, I clearly hear God saying loudly through you that if we sincerely love our God, we need to have missions  [side# 16 MISSIONS] as an even higher priority than we do now.
Aside from all the wonderful ways we are already in mission, God is saying, “There is room for more.”  God has stirred our hearts. That stirring is becoming a spiritual whirlwind. God has something special in mind for us to do. [slide # 17  around….across the street]
A Bethel member brought to my attention a church that has been transformed by their answering God’s call to make missions a greater priority. [slide# 18 Jesus knocking] The church is Shadow Mountain Community Church in San Diego, California. They were struggling to meet their budget year after year. At one point, they wondered if they could even afford to do any significant missions because after all the bills had to be paid. [slide # 19 Jesus hand wrestling…] Then the church leaders came up with a deeply spiritual idea. They would tithe from the general fund to missions, just as they asked each member to tithe. Everything got quiet.
It is at that point, Dr. David Jeremiah the pastor of Shadow Mountain Community Church in San Diego, California says he went out on a limb and asked a question. He said he was not planning to ask the question and was not even sure why it came to mind. He asked, “What would God do if we tithed not only 10% but 20% of our offerings to missions.” [slide  # 20 mission] He said it got real quiet again. I do not know all the details of what they finally did, but Pastor Jeremiah says from that time on, they never again struggled to meet their budget and all the other ministries that they cared for fell in place! That is certainly inspiring.
God is not asking us to do what other churches do, but there is no doubt in my mind that God is asking us to make missions high priority. There is no longer any doubt in my mind that if we do not find a way to work together and answer that call to mission together, we will be missing one of our greatest opportunities to please God and worship in peace.

There is no other reason to be here than to please God. We please God when we work peacefully and respectfully together, when EVERYONE does their part no matter how great or small that part may be. We please God when we treat one another gently, whether we are building a mission team or an elevator with a beautiful lobby. We please God when we listen for the voice of the Good Shepherd. His sheep hear his voice. May we hear his voice clearly today and always. Amen. [slide # 21 thy will…]